i cheated when wiring in my amp.
i took 2 cables from the fron to the back, one power cable nice chunky one from battery (with inline fuse at the front) and a tiny little blue cable from front to back. the blue cable is my REM, and that is connected to a fuse under my dash.
i used a multimeter and another set of hands to measure when the voltage turned on and off with ignition then red the REM off that.
both go down the passenger side of the car (through where the standard wiring loom goes) to the boot, where my sub is.
To get a signal to my sub, i purchased a phono lead and spliced it, so the inner cable whent to one speaker output(red) and the outer to black. i then soldered and crimped these together, and ran that down to my amp. my amp sorts it out from there and it sounds fine. always good comments on the sound in my car.
some people will say its a NONO as im putting a high levgel input in to a low level output, but to be honest it does not matter in the terms of such low voltages. and if it does blow the head unit (which it has not even after a long time of hard use) i will just buy a new HU and do the propper conversion.