tbh in some places the dpf will have a wider bore, but most de-dpf tuners say use a milltek, but youve gotta think of their mark-up on it. Mines done by 5hark performance, who bored it out instead of using the milltek, but CC and Revo etc would like you to use the down-pipe (note Revo dont do a PD btw, just CR).
There are several ppl on here with their dpf's off that have past smoke tests and mot's etc, there is a large thread on here regarding DPF deletes where its been discussed.
MPG will increase as the car is no longer using energy to burn off crap, also its a more free flow system so if you sit at 70 before and after should see improvement. However the stage 2 does invite you to blast it quite a lot so it will take some willpower to see gains there.
Bhp is 20+ increase over stage 1, so about 220+, figures up to 230/40 have been reported but it varies like everything.
Not much else you need to do with the PD, unless your talking handling, (personally i think the brakes are fine). if you notice stuttering downlow in the revs you might wanna do a EGR delete, again some threads on here, but 5hark says they can map out this
problem anyway.