Dogbone mount, good tyres and feed the power in gently, you can still get a could start this way, it doesn't have to be hell for leather. After a remap though the increased torque does make it alot easier to spin the wheel, especially in the wet, i used to be able to spin mine in 4th gear when i had the OEM LCR alloys fitted.
I had a thread about it some time ago and all i got from people was BS answers blaming driving still and saying that i could not drive etc... BS, got 0 suggestions from people.
The best improvement i have done to the handling(apart from ARB's) of my car for the wet was fitting wider wheels 8.5 with 235/35/19 BF Goodrich profiler tyre, the car has totally transformed itself in the wet, cornering and put the power down.