I'm struggling to understand why you cannot just turn off the driver aids when you turn the car on?
From what I can tell of my
Formentor so far, the driving dynamics are fabulous, it's great over bumps and undulations, a nice handler. I've had a lot of "nice" cars, Alfa's, Porsche's (Panamera, Cayman, 997.2, 991.1), Audi's, BMW's etc. The
Formentor is easily as good as them, certainly the BMWs and Audis.
I for one am looking forward to motorway driving without the stress of speeding up and slowing down "manually". The roads are overcrowded and driving on the normal road network day to day is not fun in any way.
If you want a real "drivers" car I suggest you don't buy anything made after 2011. Everything since then is drive by wire, turbo and digital/fake.