Its not my driving style, I would only have myself to blame and easy to sort the issue!
I have done 13k on my front tyres with 5mm still left, most of my mileage is motorway.
35k per year!
Tyre wear isn't comparable to brake wear/warping as the design and forces involved are different.
You would be surprised how you driving style affects brakes. You say you mainly do motorway mileage, have you considered that if your in stop, start traffic that having to brake every 20 seconds or so doesn't allow the brakes to cool properly. Also holding the brake in traffic is like taking a blowtorch to the disc in one spot. If you don't brake for 20 miles and then have to brake sharply coming off the slip road to then have to sit at lights for 30-50 seconds? These things are what usually cause warping.
I see from your avatar pic that you have LCR (+) wheels, maybe the brakes are cooling too quickly and this is another issue?
All these variables need to be considered including the mechanicals.