Well with some considerable assistance from Viking, very nice chap (pm'd you Viking) I went back to my closest main dealer Richard Alexander in Hudddersfield. Another branch of Richard Alexander quite some distance away had quoted £110 for the 3yr 30,000 mile service (oil/filter/brake fluid/tick in the box/stamp).
After my good lady had said 'why the hell are you going all that way' I rang my local dealer back and immediately they said fine, we'll price match thereby saving you £90 on the original £200 quote !
WTF is all that about, why can't they just do that from the start, 1.5 hrs, I sat and watched, drank coffee and wondered where all the customers were. Probably driven away by the pricing, it just shows thanks to cupra.net a couple of phone calls and in this case Viking I'm two tanks of fuel in hand.
Remap is next, just need to find a deal on that too.