looks great with the silver, goes with the car better. up to you though fella :) not that the gold looks that bad.. just personal taste
 
Only thing... you've said you're looking to go for 16" wheels. The photoshop cuts a lot of the sidewall on your 17" spiders... so maybe even shopping them in at 18"?

They'll look like a totally different wheel in 16"

My Mate had genuine BBS wheels on his lupo, smashed one into a kerb (He's still got the other three in the garage) but replaced them with the Lenso BSX's - in about 3 months over winter the rims started to corrode (and he washes his cars regularly!)
 
little hint for you, its very hard to get the stance right on 16's without air, to get low enough you will be scraping going along normal roads! Go to 17's, much easier to get it right ;)
 
If you want Rs replicas don't go for the Lensos!
Have a look at the Calibre vintage, they look much better than the lensos and also come in 17x8 if you decide on 17's