Well I'm back and I have the front and rear ARB's done now......think me and my car are going to need some "Quality" time to get to know each other again.
Did about 10 miles on A-roads mainly, sort of 40mph up to 100 (KM/h

) and the car feels very different.
To answer some of the queries the front does follow the back better now, car feels sharper and responds to input better (less delay than the rear only).
The car corners Very flat now, although I haven;t got anywhere near the limits, tried pushing it and the car took it in it's stride......the cornering speeds scared me hence why me and the car need some "Quality" time.
The car doesn't feel unwieldy my reservation are about just how quick I'd have to go to find the limits.......guess that's what track days are for.
Fairly unsurprisingly the car feels very stiff and as my daily driver I would probably in retrospect go for a little more compliance. In fact I hear H&R and Eibach do pairs of ARB's which would be cheaper and I probably don;t need anything as extreme as 25mm (F) and 28mm (Rear), I think 22mm (F) and 25mm (rear) would be more than adequate.
Big questions to answer are still regarding understeer particulalrly in the wet, guess I will have to wait and see on that one.