Can I start by offering my apologies, Very bad day in work combined with new medication and very bad hay fever and not reading what I write, appears to have turned me into a gigantic asshole and I've spoken very out of turn. I dont expect you to accept but I thought it time to man up.
I agree with you that theres as much "If not more" risk of causing damage via bigger and offset wheels.
I've read in many many places (Not just forums) regarding spacers on the front and even consulted Mechanics and people who use spacers for track use. I myself was worried about adding 20mm spacers to the front track of my
cupra to have my Avus wheels fit
Most have said rear spacers wont really matter as the majority of the weight in my car is being carried at the front, Introducing front spacers however will increase width and move the geometry and load around. I'm not saying that after 1000 miles they will fail but putting those extra weights (Especially those huge steel buggers) and moving the geometry will only alter that which is nearly a perfectly tried and tested system...
Again... I use spacers and I will need to replace the wheel bearings sooner than someone with a standard setup, I'm not condoning it, Its just the way it works offsetting the wheels and moving them outwards only serves to put more stress on the inner components. Longer bolt method as opposed to the hubcentrics that bolt to the hub are generally considered safer as less load is being transferred through the bolts.
I imagine alot of the fear is generated by people using non-centric longer bolted spacers.
But still "Front" spacers only will reduce the life of the wheel bearings.
But then.. if we did nothing to our cars we'd probably not be here.
Again Apologies.