Anyway, since my last posting to this thread, I did buy and receive a container of the correct VW Group Haldex fluid, so then I had a complete kit of parts, namely 2 drain/fill plugs, Haldex fluid, Haldex seals and bolts kit and a Laser Tools "fill dispenser" so you load the container of fluid into the dispenser bottle, screw it to the dispenser pump, pull the plunger back - to fill the pump chamber, push the long flexible hose over the crossmember and into the open fill port.
Note covering what became of the first bottle of Haldex fluid I ordered - Then, the missing container of fluid started to move slowly around the country, and by just after Christmas, it was heading up North, but very slowly, then the seller contacted me to say I would receive it within 4 days! Actually it stalled again for 15 days before arriving on my doorstep, I felt bad for the seller, but if they had made it sound like they were not interested to getting this to me as quickly as expected, so then I had 2 containers of Haldex fluid!
So, today, days before using her 2019 SEAT Leon Cupra for a family trip down to London and Canterbury from Edinburgh, my daughter finally let me service her car!
I replaced the oil and filter, failed to replace the pollen filter, subject of another new thread, and finally manned up and finally replaced the fluid in the front diff Haldex, I was running out of time so I did not remove and clean the pump, I'm saving that job for next Summer and changing the fluid again as I have that spare container of fluid and it will run out of service life in a year or so. The old fluid was clear of "bits" and only slightly darker than the fresh, well within date new VW Group Haldex fluid, so maybe she and her partner don't give the Cupra a hard time. I did not run any "stuff" on VCDS as I didn't want to cause the pump any grief if there is some trapped "bits" partially blocking its screen.
So now to buy another 2 fill/drain plugs, this time I'll ask the local Skoda dealer's parts guy for a price as that place is easy for me to get to when we are on grandson watching duty!
Edited to move the update covering when or why the first bottle of Haldex fluid away, slightly, from the main body of this posting!!