In short - you can't bypass the N75. You can bypass the N249 but don't bother - I did and it made no difference apart from a strange noise on dump so I undid it.
This belief on the forums that "the DV dumps when it shouldn't" is a myth - the ECU will use the N249 to open the dump valve when it doesn't need to run the turbo so hard to meet the requested torque. You'd only have a
problem if you found the DV was dumping at wide-open throttle. If not, leave it alone. It's a safety device for the turbo, you wouldn't remove seat belts would you? Or bypass the radiator?