they are really mate, they suite a standard pre facelift family car but im guessing that isnt the look that your aiming for lol

Plenty of wheels around for good money these days, 17" tt comps look the nuts on a leon if stanced right, starfishes will suit but i personaly dont like em hence why mine went in place off bbs, Rs4's look good in deep red theres a kid on our local forum got em on a mk4 golf and they look real classy, common wheel but with the right colour it opens them up again
 
theres only certain wheels can pull of color mate you gotta be careful, if done right it looks awesome though!! you want wide stance bang some spacers on, 15 or 20 on the back and 10 or 15 on the front bosh
 
you can get coilovers as cheap as springs now mate, then you can go as low or as high as you want and all of your suspension is new and upgraded! jom's are only bout £150, my FK's where only £170 delivered and i cant knock em, depends if you want the car that rigid or not, if not go springs and space that byatch lol