I'm not going to go on about diesels per se..but what I am going to say is this...
I have had petrols all my life and now own my first deisel after 25yrs of driving.
Do I think I made a mistake..no
Would I buy again yes...
However I also own a turbo petrol
Do I like it yes..it ironically has a smaller power band than my deisel where to match or beat the same pace it has to be kept above 5000rpm.
The real deal to me is how they drive...
I have been a driving fan for as long as I have lived and today I took my deisel onto very demanding driving roads I have driven many hooned miles in petrol cars...
How did my deisel do..
It went absolutely fantastic..

The limit to my pace today wasn't the engine but my chassis and I was feathering the throttle to keep the car balanced round corners..so in effect I couldn't have gone any quicker in a petrol car over those roads...
So to summarise..deisels today equal petrol cars...and you can't say fairer..
I would be interested to know M0rk wether you have actually driven say a Cupra tdi with revo....you may well be surprised..I was..pleasantly