To the OP
Mate if your nerves are that bad stop coming on here and reading the posts! Not difficult!!
All you've done is come on here and elaborate on your sob story. I'm sure your mum and nan aren't well and I wish them the very best but your trying pull the wool over everyone's eyes with a sob story.
You've already told us you plan to use it for work and uni and do X amount of miles in it. Do your mum and your nan go to uni with you? I doubt it.
Oh and if there as bad as you say they are an your the only carer, I'm sure you wouldn't be blessed with the privalige of time to indulge yourself in further education.
Also let me get this straight, your at uni and you said you plan on taking a year out so that's already 30 odd grand that you have no intentions of paying back yet plus whatever the going rate is for these copa's.
On the Astra forum you said you had to talk her into it in the first place??!!
Do yourself a favour and just don't post again. You can find a hell of a lot of information by using the search button. Harsh reality is people won't want to
help you because the way your being viewed by most on here is your just stealing from the tax payer through your poor mother...