Also to add to the people saying he shouldn't be using the car to go to college/work (which you're allowed to do). Do you suggest he leaves the car and take a bus? Remember that his mum is choosing to give up her money, in place of a car for him to help her get around. Motability don't give you personal drivers with the car as far as I know so he's doing nothing wrong, except maybe giving his mum some money, as I'm sure other people would because they don't see it as a chore to look after their own mother who has to go without over £200? A month just so she can get around easier. What I've seen in this thread is nothing short of bullying and I think some of you should feel badly for what use are doing/saying to a guy who's already admitted to possibly ill mental health. It's ridiculous.