AGU has 20mm gudeon pins. I have a set in my bedroom. Just measured them. The pistons are forged mahle items as standard and will take the sort of power you are looking at all day.
I can't speak for BAM as I've not had one in bits.
All 1.8T cranks are forged and even if BAM does have 19mm pins, you can buy uprated rods for this size and again you will be fine with the amount of power mentioned in this thread. Engines with 19mm rods have less strong pistons, but I've only heard this, again can't confirm personally.
Don't worry about crank cases. BAM/AMK has extra webs, but I don't know anyone with a failed crankcase on a road car.
Just build up the engine you have in your car if going higher than the 350bhp / 350ft/lb OEM ceiling people mention.
Bearing shells only need to be upgraded over about 400bhp I'm told. Calico items (spelling?).